Waiting outside your man’s cave

Beaming faces staring at you at the end of a busy day, some heavenly hugs before sitting down to share the day’s events with our soul mate – that’s what drives a woman’s life. And as long as she has that, everything is fine, regardless of the state of the outside world. This is how we are, regardless of our height, no matter how high or low our profile is. How happy our children are and how connected we feel to the ‘only’ man in our lives reigns on our list of wants and needs. A few added material adornments were sprinkled over the needs of the soul, and we almost have it all!

Bottom line: it doesn’t take much to make women happy, and it doesn’t take much to stain the bubble of euphoria, either. Its door hits your face (and I don’t mean that literally), and you can feel the clouds brushing against your very existence!

Men are prone to cave retreats – a strictly no-go area with a sign saying “ intruders will be growled at ” next to the entrance. We know it, having lived with them and endured it all. However, each time it happens, the pains of betrayal consume the peace of our minds, and dealing with it becomes as great a challenge as the annoying closed door. Despite all the hindsight, not being able to connect “deeply” leads to irrational negativity that is completely unnecessary.

The so-called experts, who have spent moments outside the picture studying relationship situations subjectively, talk about how we should regress, not get too analytical with the ‘why’s about the disconnected state and wait patiently to recover them at the end of the hibernation period. . But putting together the fortune-telling to look past the thumb-stomp wait time is a hard-working task.

So next time you talk to your partner and consider ‘poor connectivity’, which is a sure sign of eventual cave retraction, it would definitely help if:

* Ask the heavens for immense wisdom, so that you can look at the situation dispassionately, don’t feel hurt when he doesn’t pay your attention to you and say to yourself, “He will come back. It’s just his way of dealing with stress or problems. Pressure “.

* Be best friends with the proverbial man who waits earnestly by the door, and say to yourself, “So what if he’s not stroking my coat? He loves me very much most of the time.”

* Enjoy the detours (it definitely doesn’t have to be with other men. You better not, believe me!), Pursue a hobby, form a band with your girlfriends, and have fun together with the girls.

* Not having him around to give away your attentions gives you a lot of time for “me”. Think of all the things you wanted to do but barely had time for. It could be the story you were writing or the painting you were working on. Do it now. We can turn the whole situation to our credit.

Knowing that ‘time out’ is a passing phase, you might say to yourself, “It’s time for me to have a life of my own!”

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